Making mom friends sucks š©
Got blocked from a local moms fb group today!
Wrote on the fb page:
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Throw back!
high school…. circa 2003.
I was invited to a play~date
only to say I was uninvited!
keep your party to yourself
and please šš¼ donāt invite me,Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā itsĀ sad and meanš©
My kid had a good timeĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā thanks anyways!
Next time I should host you šĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā bless your heartš
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Cliques are thriving in SAHM groups
just like the mean girls in high school.
Just donāt invite the rest of usĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā who just needed to get out of the house
for sanity!
It is not fair š
Iām happy for you
and that you found chemistry
with another set of moms
and their children.
But don’t host anĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Open Play~Date on the fb pageĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Invite all and then change it
into a private party inĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā LITERALLY 5 minutes.
Woman!!!
I am in your driveway!Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Everyone who rsvpedĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā yes or maybe to the eventĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā am I crazy?
It was a production to get here!
you have a toddler,
you know how it goes!
Granted she was pregnant
hormonal fluctuations
are to be taken into account….
But I am PMSing too!
My husband always asks
the age ol’ question…
Why do B****es be Trippin?
Itās hormones!
Ā I must have misunderstood š§š
Ā Sitting in my car
figuring out what to do made me late
Guess I wontĀ be invited to the next eventā£ļø
Pass the wine š·
Inspired byĀ a new friend š·
Cheers B****es!š„
That is truly so incredibly sordid and disrespectful! And what your husband said was funny. Enjoy your wine!
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Thank you! ā„ļøš
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Actually itās no where near āsordidā you were not there- if you were you would understand the other side of the story .
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Have you seen Big Little Lies? It reminds me a lot of that! lol
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No it I will now!
Thanxxxx
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If I openly invite someone to my house and plans change, I would go with the flow and accommodate someone who was already there! What’s a cup of coffee going to hurt?
I stand with ya, girlfriend. Pass the wine!
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You were not there to witness what happened. Anyone can start a blog and stir the pot to fit ātheir narrativeā yes true- the play date was canceled at the last minute- and people showed up- and we were all invited in to ā the pregnant ladyās home with fluctuating hormones ā lol she was gracious to us all because the weather had turned/ HOWEVER…. what happened after that- made everyone uncomfortable (as stated by the moderator) because the owner of this āblogā made it uncomfortable! Asking us if we were all able to stay sober when we go out with our children- asking us if our body parts were in fact ārealā WHO DOES THAT???? telling us that she canāt get through the day without drugs or alcohol! Hell yes she made us all uncomfortable!! Telling us she drives around with her child in the car when she is on Xanax and her own husband tells her to stop drinking so much. We arenāt āmean girlsā but thatās a good story!! Maybe we should start a blog…. hmmmm
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Maybe you should start a blog šš
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Omg that is childish on their behalf… Iāve had to deal with mommy group drama similar to this because I didnāt have a Bob stroller like everyone else in the group and was told I couldnāt come to the public events anymore lol I thought it was supper silly but happy that I didnāt have to pretend to be someone else to fit in… I ended up starting my own group and made way better real friends!!
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Daaaaammmmmmn thatās deep. Iām a geeklesss nerd with no friends. All my friends are online in mom groups..Iām not in a local one so I donāt have these issues. I have wonderful mom group friends. My mom group friends helped me get to Perez Hilton lol maybe itās just that group of ladies that are āmean girlsā donāt be discouraged. Iām literally in the same boat as you. I have a tough time making friends and I just want mom friends and comapanins of my own age and itās just hard! I hope this situation works out and I also pray you get genuine friends… not mean girls
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